How to have a healthier sense of self-esteem without being a jerk

We live in a world that glorifies confidence and celebrates self-belief. That’s why people who toot their own horn without inhibition tend to advance their careers more often than their more modest counterparts. This, in turn, explains the prevalence of narcissistic leaders.

In most societies, individuals are more likely to succeed when they have deceived themselves into thinking they are talented when in fact they are not, rather than when they are aware of their flaws.

If you care about developing your actual talents and being more competent, it is essential to start with a proper reality check to understand your limitations. Since most people–bosses, in particular–are rarely able or willing to provide us with honest, constructive, and critical feedback on our potential, your best bet is to be self-critical and be the unequivocal and ruthless judge of your own performance and talents.

Here are some useful parameters for aligning your views with reality rather than your wishful thinking:

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